Taire Stephen: Flirt like a Pro!

Taire Stephen: Flirt like a Pro!: So You mean flirt? Really? Yes I mean flirt and like really. The word flirt or flirting is bound to raise an eye brow with most folks es...

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Flirt like a Pro!

So You mean flirt? Really?

Yes I mean flirt and like really. The word flirt or flirting is bound to raise an eye brow with most folks especially the conservative lot. Flirting comes across to many as dirty, filthy, and sinful even evil. But is it really?

Not necessarily. If that was the case then we would all be dirty and filthy and sinful cos we all flirt at one time or the other. We all flirt at some point in our lives. The difference is that some of us do it effectively and objectively and we end up finding love while others do it badly and end up being rejected.

For those who don’t know how to flirt effectively and are willing to learn how it’s done, this book is for you.

So back to the morals of the concept of flirting. Is flirting really bad? No its not. It all depends on why you are flirting in the first place; provided you even know how to flirt effectively.

Flirting like anything else in life can be used for good or for bad. It can be used to find a husband like Ruth did in Ruth Chapters 3 and 4, or it can be used to find a wife and to raise a family. On the other hand it can be used to solicit for clients by a prostitute who wants to make money; it’s all about the intent.

Flirting is a tool, and a means to an end; it all depends on you.

So what does it mean to flirt?

So what does it mean to flirt? What is the definition of flirting? A quick search on google brought up this definition, “to behave as though sexually attracted to someone, but playfully rather than with serious intentions”.

Opps! I just said SEX!

So flirting is kind of a game, a kind of play to stimulate sexual interest in someone you are interested in. Oops! Guess I just mentioned another controversial word, SEX! But then again is sex a bad thing or a good thing? My answer again is that it depends. Some people use sex as a way of having illegal fun and pleasure or to make money while others use it in marriage to raise a family to the glory of God.

I am convinced that sex in itself is not a bad thing, it’s the abuse of sex for selfish gain that is bad. To get more on sex, sexuality and sexual depth read my book UNDERSTANDING SEX. Get it here http://tairestephen.com/books

If after all I have said you still think that sex is a bad thing by default then I would advise you to go open your bible and read the songs of Solomon. That book talks mainly about sexual desire of a man and woman for each other. If sex was a bad thing by default then it wouldn’t be in the bible. It is not sex that is bad, it’s the abuse of sex that is bad; get that clear.

If at this point you still are not convinced, please stop reading thing book and close the file. Thank you. Now let’s move on.

You can master the game of flirting

So how do we become masters at the game of flirting? How do we apply the outer game of flirting to perfection? Well to master the outer game of flirting you first need to take care of the inner game; you need to build your self-esteem, your self-confidence.

All of us are always talking to ourselves in our heads. We are always conversing with ourselves without even knowing it. We talk to ourselves all the time. Sadly most of the time we talk negatively to ourselves.

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The sexual commodity called woman

Are women sex objects? Are they created simply to satisfy and feed the sexual cravings of the men folk? Is the place of a woman strictly on her back in the bedroom and the kitchen?

To start with it’s this kind of articles that gets men in to trouble with women but what can I say, maybe I like walking on the edge.

First of all I think that the truth really is that women are indeed sexual being. You only have to take a look at them to see this. Virtually everything about a woman screams of sexuality.

From the way she dresses emphasizing her hips, buttocks and boobs to the amount of time she spends wearing makeup in a bid to attract men and women; it all speaks of sex.

In my opinion, the subject of whether or not women are sexual beings need not arise. The real question is, “are women more than just sexual beings” and my answer to that question is yes.

Women were created to fill a void in a man’s life and that void includes but transcends sex.

Women are our nurturers, our care givers, our sisters, our mothers and wives.

They fill up the gaps and help us get through times and situations that we would otherwise be unable to.

Women love us, guide us, coerce us to eat fruits from forbidden trees and strengthen us when we are weak.

If women indeed do all these thing and are all these things why then do so many view them as mere sex objects?

Sadly the answer to that question lies in women themselves.

Truly women were created with a capacity to fulfill and complete humanity in ways that are far reaching and beyond sexual pleasures but the problem is that too many women have failed to realize this truth. Lots of women have gone on through self-portrayal to suggest that all women are sex objects.

Trends in female fashion that focus on showing up more than decent amounts of flesh and body parts, trends in society that see many women insisting that a man who can’t give them ten orgasms a night isn’t worth being called a man and the associated trends of women emphasizing sex as the most critical factor to the success of a marriage alongside or before money leaves many men with the perception that women may indeed be no more than sex objects. Off course we are all aware of the age old practice of some women trading sex for money.

Yet when you observe the army of female doctors doing noteworthy things in the medical profession or business women in different spheres of commerce building and leading fortune 500 companies you realize that the sex object objectification of women isn’t exactly accurate.

Whenever women are seen as sex objects it is often because of the antecedents of some of the same women folk who cry out against this inaccurate categorization.

Like someone once said, “you are addressed the way you are dressed”.

Are women sex objects? My answer is no. however until women start to migrate from tendencies and habits that consistently label them as such they might inadvertently continue to promote this wrong and faulty perception about the women folk.

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