1.
Does he act his talk
When a man says he loves you he’s also got to show that he loves you. There
are of course many ways by which he could do this and these include, calling
you often, sending you gifts, visiting and taking you out etc.The actions of a man who claims to love you should clearly tally with his words. A man who beats up his wife or girlfriend or who abuses her physically does not love her and will soon kill her. That might seem like an obvious enough fact but I have indeed heard stories of women who kept living with a man who was physically abusive to them because he said he loved them and blamed their abusive behavior on some diabolical outside force or on the devil. Such women go on to believe such nonsense and somehow hold on to the illusion that a man who physically abuses her can indeed still love her.
A man in love does not delight in inflicting pain on his woman; on the contrary he wants to bring her pleasure. If you’re seeing a man and all he does is want to beat you up at the slightest provocation then honey that sure isn’t love.
Of course there are also other forms of abuse like the mental sort. Does he talk you down all the time or at least most of the time? Does he delight in embarrassing you before his friends or your friends? Does he make you feel like you have nothing of value to say and in other words gives you the impression that you’re a nit wit? If he does, then be careful because such are not the ways of love.
Love elevates and does not deflate the one that’s loved.
2.
Does he spend quality time with you?
When a man is in love with you he wants to be with you always. Given that
that might be a little much as a result of the hectic schedule lots of people
run these days to make ends meet, yet my point is that he will want to be with
you as much as possible.When a man is in love with a woman he simply adores her and delights in being in her presence. Being away from her is like a form of torture to him and he can’t wait to be by her side as soon as he can. Yes I know that there are times and even circumstances that might make this a bit difficult (like your partner living in another state or another country) but even then you will hear the yearning in his voice and they will find a way to reach out to you via phone calls, emails, chat, blackberry etc on a regular basis.
3.
Is he kind to you?
Yes love makes us treat our partner or significant other with kindness. It makes
us thoughtful and considerate of our partners needs. If a man claims to love
you but he isn’t being kind to you then he can’t be telling the truth.Now don’t get me wrong ladies. A man emptying his bank account for you to buy the latest Gucci leather handbag isn’t an act of kindness rather it’s an act of dumbness so don’t ask him to do that. A man doesn’t have to give you everything you ask for to prove he’s kind. He does however have to put you first when it comes to those crucial matters of life and when it comes to doing those little things that just show that you’re special to him.
4.
Can you see it in his eyes
Yes the eyes do reveal secrets and you can see it in a man’s eyes if he’s
really head over heels in love with you or if he’s just hanging in there. When a
man is in love with a woman, his eyes brighten and a certain glow comes to his
face when he is with her. I think that it’s the same thing with a woman too
when she is with a man she loves. The difference being that women being
generally more secretive than men might not reflect that glow as much as a man
would in her bid to seem uninterested or more lady like.However with a man, being the hunter, he is very likely to show his delight at being in the presence of the object of his deepest affections. Take a good look at his eyes when he is with you, if its love, you will see it in the glow in his eyes and in the brightness of his face.
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