Men and the insecurity question

In my first post I shared a personal experience with you on how I lost a woman who meant so much to me for no reason of hers. This was a woman that I loved and adored and yet I lost her; drove her right out of my life. 

We are often told to learn from our past mistakes so sometimes I think of the past to learn from it.

When I think of my past with Ella with the purpose of pointing out where I got it wrong, a gigantic monster stares me in the face; it is called insecurity.  

Insecurity is a plague that affects both men and women. However it would appear that it is most visible in men.

The reason for this is probably obvious; women are better at hiding their true feeling including their insecurities.

We all have insecurities and we need to put a check on them especially as men. The average woman doesn't like being spied on or placed under unnecessary suspicion (and neither do the men) and that's what insecurity makes of a man; a sick, hallucination paranoid, psycho.

If you're a lady or a man and you find that your insecurity is getting the better of you, I'd suggest you take charge of your self now and get a grip of your life and your relationship before you lose it.