Are women sex objects? Are they created simply to satisfy
and feed the sexual cravings of the men folk? Is the place of a woman strictly on
her back in the bedroom and the kitchen?
To start with it’s this kind of articles that gets men in to
trouble with women but what can I say, maybe I like walking on the edge.
First of all I think that the truth really is that women are
indeed sexual being. You only have to take a look at them to see this. Virtually
everything about a woman screams of sexuality.
From the way she dresses emphasizing her hips, buttocks and
boobs to the amount of time she spends wearing makeup in a bid to attract men
and women; it all speaks of sex.
In my opinion, the subject of whether or not women are
sexual beings need not arise. The real question is, “are women more than just
sexual beings” and my answer to that question is yes.
Women were created to fill a void in a man’s life and that
void includes but transcends sex.
Women are our nurturers, our care givers, our sisters, our
mothers and wives.
They fill up the gaps and help us get through times and
situations that we would otherwise be unable to.
Women love us, guide us, coerce us to eat fruits from forbidden
trees and strengthen us when we are weak.
If women indeed do all these thing and are all these things
why then do so many view them as mere sex objects?
Sadly the answer to that question lies in women themselves.
Truly women were created with a capacity to fulfill and
complete humanity in ways that are far reaching and beyond sexual pleasures but
the problem is that too many women have failed to realize this truth. Lots of
women have gone on through self-portrayal to suggest that all women are sex
objects.
Trends in female fashion that focus on showing up more than
decent amounts of flesh and body parts, trends in society that see many women
insisting that a man who can’t give them ten orgasms a night isn’t worth being
called a man and the associated trends of women emphasizing sex as the most
critical factor to the success of a marriage alongside or before money leaves
many men with the perception that women may indeed be no more than sex objects.
Off course we are all aware of the age old practice of some women trading sex
for money.
Yet when you observe the army of female doctors doing noteworthy
things in the medical profession or business women in different spheres of
commerce building and leading fortune 500 companies you realize that the sex
object objectification of women isn’t exactly accurate.
Whenever women are seen as sex objects it is often because
of the antecedents of some of the same women folk who cry out against this inaccurate
categorization.
Like someone once said, “you are addressed the way you are
dressed”.
Are women sex objects? My answer is no. however until women
start to migrate from tendencies and habits that consistently label them as
such they might inadvertently continue to promote this wrong and faulty
perception about the women folk.
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