Monday, September 12, 2016

Flirt like a Pro!

Posted on Monday, September 12, 2016by with No comments
So You mean flirt? Really?
Yes I mean flirt and like really. The word flirt or flirting is bound to raise an eye brow with most folks especially the conservative lot. Flirting comes across to many as dirty, filthy, and sinful even evil. But is it really?
Not necessarily. If that was the case then we would all be dirty and filthy and sinful cos we all flirt at one time or the other. We all flirt at some point in our lives. The difference is that some of us do it effectively and objectively and we end up finding love while others do it badly and end up being rejected.
For those who don’t know how to flirt effectively and are willing to learn how it’s done, this book is for you.
So back to the morals of the concept of flirting. Is flirting really bad? No its not. It all depends on why you are flirting in the first place; provided you even know how to flirt effectively.
Flirting like anything else in life can be used for good or for bad. It can be used to find a husband like Ruth did in Ruth Chapters 3 and 4, or it can be used to find a wife and to raise a family. On the other hand it can be used to solicit for clients by a prostitute who wants to make money; it’s all about the intent.
Flirting is a tool, and a means to an end; it all depends on you.



So what does it mean to flirt?
So what does it mean to flirt? What is the definition of flirting? A quick search on google brought up this definition, “to behave as though sexually attracted to someone, but playfully rather than with serious intentions”.
Opps! I just said SEX!
So flirting is kind of a game, a kind of play to stimulate sexual interest in someone you are interested in. Oops! Guess I just mentioned another controversial word, SEX! But then again is sex a bad thing or a good thing? My answer again is that it depends. Some people use sex as a way of having illegal fun and pleasure or to make money while others use it in marriage to raise a family to the glory of God.
I am convinced that sex in itself is not a bad thing, it’s the abuse of sex for selfish gain that is bad. To get more on sex, sexuality and sexual depth read my book UNDERSTANDING SEX. Get it here http://tairestephen.com/books
If after all I have said you still think that sex is a bad thing by default then I would advise you to go open your bible and read the songs of Solomon. That book talks mainly about sexual desire of a man and woman for each other. If sex was a bad thing by default then it wouldn’t be in the bible. It is not sex that is bad, it’s the abuse of sex that is bad; get that clear.
If at this point you still are not convinced, please stop reading thing book and close the file. Thank you. Now let’s move on.

You can master the game of flirting
So how do we become masters at the game of flirting? How do we apply the outer game of flirting to perfection? Well to master the outer game of flirting you first need to take care of the inner game; you need to build your self-esteem, your self-confidence.
All of us are always talking to ourselves in our heads. We are always conversing with ourselves without even knowing it. We talk to ourselves all the time. Sadly most of the time we talk negatively to ourselves.
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